Life & Work

by Step on November 30, 2011

Gluckstadt, Mississippi is a commodity of a place. Its only obvious value is its proximity to Jackson. For most of my life it has been just another exit off I-55. My in-laws moved there though, and it became the setting of two of the most significant moments of my life.

Last Thanksgiving my family and I traveled there from Hot Springs for the holdiay. The morning after we arrived we received a call from our pediatrician’s nurse. Our youngest child (Noah) had not grown in a number of months. Trying to identify the cause, our doctor had ordered blood work the week before our trip. The nurse had received the results and wanted us to come in that morning to repeat the test. When my wife told her we were out of town, the nurse asked when we planned to return. She said it was important that we conduct a follow-up test as soon as possible to rule out a possible issue. After several minutes of pressing questions from my wife, the nurse admitted that Leukemia was a concern.

In an instant, my perspective on life changed.

The next several hours were filled with phone calls, prayer and tears. Fortunately, an old friend from the Jackson area is a pediatrician. We were able to get in touch with him through his office and he agreed to see us that afternoon. He performed the necessary test and processed the results while we waited. Noah’s original test results had apparently been skewed by a bacterial infection. There was no sign of Leukemia. Thankfulness came easily that year.

My other Gluckstadt incident was much less dramatic but in a way, just as significant. On a different visit my oldest son (Sam) and I went to the grocery store together to pick up a few things. As we drove, we chatted about random things. After a pause in the conversation, Sam said, “Daddy, I hope I work at Chick-fil-A someday.” I asked why. “Because it’s a good job,” he said. I asked what he thought made it good. “Well,” he said, “it gives you a way to provide for your family, it lets you take care of people and it’s fun”

Sam’s thoughts are helpful if you understand the first story. On that awful day of what-ifs, it was irrelevant if Noah would ever produce a paycheck or help people or even have fun. We weren’t afraid of the loss of his potential. We were terrified we might lose him.

Many of us have confused what we do with who we are. A profession is a beautiful thing but it is no substitute for personhood.

So if you have a job that provides for your family, or helps people, or is fun; you have something good. And if you have a job with all three, congratulations on finding the sweet spot. Regardless, your job is still just a spot. Jobs are like towns. They are not life itself, but are instead, places to live. And the people of a place can make that spot magical, even places like Gluckstadt, Mississippi.

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What’s with the crickets?

by Step on October 11, 2011

Sooo…that was an awkward silence.

Even with only a handful of readers I thought I’d get a little pushback after my last post. Not that I’m trying to be a sensationalist but don’t you think it was a bit bleak? Maybe I didn’t do a good enough job. I believe our current culture of work is actually more grim than I painted it to be.

Nevertheless, I am not without hope. The post was meant to be part one of two with the second part communicating what I believe we can do to transform our work from something that is life-crushing to something that is life-giving. Part two is on the way. In the meantime, I’d love to hear you chime in.

What do you think? Was I wrong?

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Freedom we hardly knew ye

September 23, 2011

Summer’s over. The cycle begins again.
Don’t despair. Just hold on. Five o’clock comes every day; the weekend, four times a month.
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Stop being selfish. Think of the people around you. This is the real [...]

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The Secret To Finding The Right Employees

September 13, 2011

The quick-service restaurant operator, the walk-up pizza place guy and the manager of the snack food shop are all wrestling with the same question. “How do I find the right employees?” Answering the question through endless trial and error threatens to take the fun out of their work.
There’s very little middle ground in [...]

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The Critical Difference Between How & Why

August 22, 2011

If you’re installing vinyl siding you mustn’t drive your nails tight. Otherwise the siding will buckle in warm weather. When you’re pulling wood on the green chain, rotate with the other guy every hour to preserve your stamina. In a quick-service restaurant, time your first batch of chicken to finish cooking ten [...]

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Your fairy called…she wants a raise!

August 17, 2011

I’ve lost track of the number of things that get measured during the first few years of a kid’s life. In addition to the height and weight stuff, there is a new battery of questions that must be answered at each checkup. “How’s his pincer grip?” “Is he cruising?” “How many words can [...]

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Who Picks The Game?

August 16, 2011

Why is it we all understand the stereotype of the kid who threatens to take his ball and go home if he doesn’t get to pick the game? It resonates with me because I knew kids like that growing up. And if I’m completely honest with myself, I understand it because a version of [...]

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Recipes For Satisfying Work

August 4, 2011

I first learned of the world’s goodness at a kitchen table.
In the South of my childhood, love was tangible. It was served to you on steaming plates and in cold glasses of tea. In this culture of hospitality, grandmothers reigned supreme. Refusing Grandma was a capital offense. Declining her signature dish [...]

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Beginning A New Chapter

August 3, 2011

Yesterday marked the third anniversary of the end of a chapter for me. Three years ago my family loaded a moving van and said goodbye to Mississippi. I also said goodbye to what I had once thought was my dream job and the industry in which I expected to spend my entire career.
That [...]

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Pity The Imbecile Among You

July 19, 2011

I grew up in the deep South. All my life I’ve been surrounded by “good Christian folk”. Some of this rubs off, so of course I consider myself pretty well acquainted with the basics tenets of Christianity. It’s widely known the Ten Commandments are a foundational element of southern spirituality. It [...]

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